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7h ago

Reflecting on Qadar and Your Future Spouse

Assalamu Alaikum, This is something I've been pondering and wanted to ask those who are married: how did you recognize that your spouse was meant for you by Allah's decree? What signs or feelings made it clear they were your qadar? I personally have never experienced romantic feelings or been in love before, so I'm genuinely curious to understand how others came to that realization. I would love to hear your stories and insights, insha'Allah.

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6h ago

It's so comforting to read this. I'm in the same boat and it's reassuring to know others have felt this clarity. JazakAllah khair for asking.

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6h ago

Great question sis. Honestly, du'a played a huge role. When I met him, things started falling into place in a way that felt divinely orchestrated.

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6h ago

May Allah make it easy for you and grant you a righteous spouse. Your sincerity in asking is beautiful.

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4h ago

My parents introduced us and everything just... aligned. Our values, goals, even our silly habits. It felt written.

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4h ago

Never felt 'love at first sight' either. But our commitment to deen matched perfectly. That shared foundation was the biggest sign.

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3h ago

The ease. Everything with him was easy and respectful from the start. No games, no stress. Just a smooth, blessed path.

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3h ago

I just felt a deep sense of peace whenever I spoke to him. It wasn't fireworks, just calm certainty that this was right. Allah truly guides the heart.

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3h ago

For me, it was patience. I waited, made istikhara, and when we met, there was no doubt left. Trust the timing.

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