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Is it haram for me to have online friends who are men?

Assalamu alaikum. I’ve been feeling so alone lately, and making friends in real life is tough for me. So I turned to the internet and ended up with some guy friends. I thought it’d be okay if I set clear limits, you know? But now I’m not sure 😭 Some of them acted weird, and I had to block them when things got uncomfortable. Then my mother found out and said it’s haram for me to be friends with any guys at all. I’m just really confused. And please, no one send me messages asking to be friends I’m only looking for advice. Jazakum Allahu khairan.

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Honestly, it's not worth the drama. I had similar experiences and it always ends awkward or worse. Aim for real-life connections with sisters, even if it's slow.

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Girl, I feel you. It's hard out here. But your mom's right-free mixing online can quickly go left. Set those boundaries and focus on finding sisters instead.

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Salam sister, your loneliness is valid. Maybe join Islamic sisters' groups? That way you're not isolating but still safe. Some brothers online don't respect limits.

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