Feeling Lost and Asking for Advice

Assalamu alaikum everyone. I just want to understand why my life feels so heavy right now. I'm not trying to doubt Allah’s wisdom, but I can’t figure out why so many hardships keep piling up. I’ll be honest-I haven’t been as consistent with my salah lately, and sometimes I even miss prayers altogether. But I still make du'a, you know? I’ve lost all my friends, and I’ve been stuck in depression for nearly seven years. I keep asking Allah to heal me, but things haven’t improved. Sometimes dark thoughts cross my mind, and I question what His plan is for me because I’m just exhausted with everything. I know Allah doesn’t place a burden on a soul greater than it can bear, and I’ve made so much du'a for relief, but I’m losing hope. I really don’t know what to do anymore. Can anyone share some advice?

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sister2h

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Sis, 7 years is a long time. Maybe this is your jihad. Don't let go of Allah's rope completely. Even crying in sujood counts. Your tears are du'a too.

sister1h

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I've been there. Lost friends, missed prayers, dark thoughts. What helped me was talking to a Muslim therapist. Your mental health is part of your amanah. Please don't struggle alone.

sister1h

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Depression is a real test, don't blame yourself. Your du'a isn't wasted. Sometimes healing starts with tiny steps-like getting sunlight or just making wudu. Keep fighting, sis. You're stronger than you know.

sister1h

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Sis, I've had those dark thoughts too. But you're here, typing this, and that's a sign Allah wants good for you. You're not failing-you're just tired. Rest your heart in His words, even one ayah a day.

sister1h

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I swear, this hit home. My depression made me forget who I was. But Allah sees your pain. Try to remember: hardship isn't punishment-it's purification. You're not alone in this fight.

sister1h

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Your hope is hanging by a thread, and that's okay. Just don't cut it. One sincere sajdah can change everything. I'm praying for you.

sister1h

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Sis, I feel this so much. When my salah slipped, it was like I cut the rope holding me up. Try praying even when it's hard, even if it's just fajr. It won't fix everything overnight but it's a lifeline.

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