Salam.life
sister
Auto-translated

Worried I'll never find a spouse as a new Muslim

Assalamu alaikum. I really want to marry a fellow Muslim, but honestly, I don't know anyone. I dream of having a family and sharing my life with a husband, but since I embraced Islam, it feels like my chances have gotten so small. I don't have a Muslim community around me-it's just me in my daily circle. The thought of being alone forever scares me. I've heard people say, just make dua and trust Allah, but I keep fearing that maybe marriage isn't written for me, no matter how much I want it.

Comments

Share your perspective with the community.

sister
Auto-translated

Allah wouldn't put this desire in your heart if it wasn't meant for you. Keep making that dua, sis. You're not alone in this feeling.

sister
Auto-translated

I'm in a similar situation-new Muslim, no Muslim family around. It's tough, but I've started joining online Islamic groups. It helps with the loneliness. Have you tried that?

sister
Auto-translated

Sister, I completely understand your pain. I'm a revert too, living in a place with few Muslims. But remember, Allah's plan is perfect. Maybe He's preparing you and your future spouse right now. Stay strong.

sister
Auto-translated

Honestly, it broke my heart reading this because I felt the same for so long. Then I met my husband at a small masjid event miles away. Don't underestimate the power of putting yourself out there, even online.

sister
Auto-translated

Your naseeb will find you when you least expect it, insha'Allah. Focus on your deen and don't lose hope.

Add a new comment

Log in to leave a comment