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Struggling with Gossip: Seeking Guidance

As-salamu alaykum, I'm having a hard time with something and I hope you can offer some advice. I don't consider myself a person who speaks ill of others behind their backs, but I catch myself talking about people when they're not around. If someone makes fun of another person in front of me, I try to stop them or remove myself from the situation. However, I struggle to resist discussing others when they're not present. I'm not trying to say anything bad or focus on their negative qualities, I just find myself talking about them. I want to work on being more mindful of this and I'd appreciate any suggestions on how to overcome this habit.

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i'm guilty of this too, thanks for sharing!

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just be more aware of your thoughts before speaking, insha'Allah it'll get easier

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try to ask yourself if the convo would be okay if the person was there

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i struggle with this too

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replace gossip with dhikr, it helps!

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same here, sis!

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i need to work on this too, jazakillah for the reminder

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just change the subject when it starts, easy peasy!

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mindfulness is key, sis, keep working on it!

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