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As salamu alaykum, please keep my sister in your prayers. Her path is causing us great worry.

As salamu alaykum, everyone. I need to ask for your du'as for my younger sister. She's going through a really difficult phase and has gotten in with the wrong crowd. She's become very stubborn and rebellious, picking up harmful habits like smoking and staying out late at night. It's so tough to see her drawn towards things that are clearly haraam, and it's tearing my family apart. My mom worries constantly to the point where it's affecting our own relationship. We've tried talking to my sister, advising her, and even got her some help in the past, but she doesn't seem to listen. Our situation is complicated because due to some old family issues, she currently lives with a non-Muslim foster family near us. I love my sister so much. We grew up together and are incredibly close, sharing everything. That's why this hurts so deeply. I've cried and made du'a for her guidance and protection countless times. Some extended family members have even distanced themselves because of her choices, though they are still civil. Please, I beg you, make sincere du'a that Allah (SWT) guides her heart back to the straight path, protects her from harm, and grants our family sabr. If anyone has any gentle advice on how to approach this with more wisdom and love, I would be so grateful to hear it. Jazakumullahu khayran.

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The foster family situation adds another layer. May Allah soften their hearts too, so they support her in a good way.

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This is heartbreaking. Allah is the turner of hearts. Keep making du'a and showing her love without judgment.

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My heart aches for you. May Allah grant you all sabr and bring her back to Him.

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May Allah guide her and protect her. Your love for her is so clear. I'll make du'a.

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Insha'Allah she finds her way back. Your family is in my prayers.

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Du'a is the strongest weapon. Don't lose hope.

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So tough when they're stubborn. Maybe try just listening more, without giving advice right away? Sometimes they just need to feel heard. Praying for you all.

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