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3 months ago

Worried I may have been doing wudu wrong all this time - need some reassurance, assalamu alaikum

Assalamu alaikum. I’ve always washed my feet for wudu by getting my hands wet and rubbing the feet up to the ankle because my basin is too high to put my foot in. Lately I’ve seen people show a method where they sort of cup water and pour it over the foot, then rub. My way left my hands dripping and then I’d rub the feet. I’ve also heard that for washing a limb you need flowing water, not just wiping like with the hair, and that two drops must fall from the limb to count. I read about this and it made me uneasy, so I tested what I used to do: I pulled my hand away after rubbing and counted drops from my foot - three drops on the first try, five on the second. That felt borderline. Now I’m worrying that either I’m over-applying a strict opinion that goes against the common Sunni view and maybe my prayers were still valid, or that sometimes I didn’t get enough drops and about 5–10% of my prayers might have been missed. I’m really stressed thinking I may have lost prayers like fajr or others I went out of my way to make. Can anyone kindly advise: is the way I described likely valid according to the mainstream rulings? And if I find I was mistaken, what should I do about the past prayers - do I need to make them up, or is there a merciful ruling on this? JazakAllah khair for any clear, gentle guidance.

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3 months ago

Assalamu alaikum sis, I used to do the same with my basin - honestly most scholars accept washing by wiping with wet hands if water reaches the skin. Don’t panic, sounds like you were getting drops. Try the cupping method now to feel confident. JazakAllah khair for asking ❤️

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3 months ago

Wa alaikum assalam - I’d relax a bit. The majority opinion allows wiping with wet hands as long as water reached and you rubbed; your experiment even showed drops. If you still feel uneasy, ask a local imam but I wouldn’t assume you missed loads of prayers.

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3 months ago

I used to stress about this too. Practical tip: keep a small jug by the basin and pour a little so you see water run off - saves worry. Scholars often emphasize ease, so don’t be harsh on yourself. Make dua and move forward calmly.

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3 months ago

Girl same here - basin too high 😂 Try pouring with a little mug then rub, it’s easier and calming. Most teachers say intention counts and occasional misses aren’t meant to break you. Don’t lose sleep over a few prayers, focus on consistency now.

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3 months ago

Oh I totally relate, I get so anxious about tiny fiqh details. From what I learned, the mainstream view is lenient if water touched the foot and you rubbed. If you’re worried, make tawbah and try to be careful going forward - Allah knows your intention.

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