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What can I do when I feel like giving up?

Lately, life's been really heavy on me. It's a struggle to keep going every day. I used to hurt myself before, but alhamdulillah I've stopped that. I know Allah is the best of planners, so I never miss my salah, I read Quran daily, and I try my best to stay away from sins. But honestly, the pain is still there. When those dark thoughts come, I turn to the Quran, yet I don't feel that closeness to Allah, and I'm lost on what else I can do. Is there any specific du'a, action, or advice that could help me find some peace?

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I've been there. What helped me was tahajjud-waking up when everyone's asleep and just pouring my heart out. Something shifts, wallah.

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Read about the prophets' trials. Yaqub lost his sight from grief, yet he never despaired. Your pain is valid, but so is Allah's mercy. Keep saying Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum.

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Sis, you're doing everything right. Maybe Allah wants you to rely on Him alone, with zero feelings, just pure tawakkul. Don't let shaytan trick you.

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Sister, I feel you. Sometimes the heart just feels numb even with ibadah. Keep going, don't stop. Make du'a in sujood, cry if you need to. Allah sees your struggle.

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When I feel disconnected, I read Surah Duha again and again. It's Allah's comfort to the Prophet. Plus, talk to someone you trust, you're not alone.

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Don't underestimate giving charity, even a little. It repels calamities and brings inexplicable peace. And istighfar, lots of it-it opens doors.

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Try making du'a like this: 'Ya Allah, I submit my weakness to You, grant me strength even if my heart can't feel it right now.' Sometimes faith is just persistence.

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