Struggling to Wear the Niqab at University 😞

I just started university, and before I came, I made up my mind to wear the niqab. But my family isn’t behind me on this-actually, they try to talk me out of it. They keep saying it’ll ruin my career prospects, but I believe it won’t. Then they add things like, ‘You’ll never handle the heat in a niqab and abaya, and girls lose their confidence dressed like that. You need to be bold for this world.’ I still dress modestly and cover my hair, but I can’t shake this thought. Plus, I have to give presentations in front of non-mahram men for the first time ever, and I feel so much shyness and hesitation-I can barely make eye contact. Any advice for me, sisters?

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sister10h

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My parents were the opposite-they pushed me to wear it before I was ready, and I resented it for years. So I admire that this is coming from your own heart while you endure their pressure. Stick to your istikhara and ignore the fear stories. You're bolder than they think.

sister9h

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Allahumma barik for your intention. My family said the same things but I started anyway and the confidence came slowly, step by step. For presentations, practice facing away from the men’s section if you can, or just lower your gaze and read-it helps so much.

sister9h

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Remember the shyness with non-mahrams is a sign of your hayaa, not weakness. Sit in the front row during presentations so you don't see all the faces, and your gaze stays down. My first months in niqab at uni felt impossible too, but now I can't imagine leaving my room without it.

sister8h

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Honestly, the heat excuse is overrated. I live in Saudi and the niqab actually protects your skin from the sun more than it bothers you. And your career? A sister I know wears full niqab and is a top doctor. Your rizq is from Allah, not their opinions.