Sisters who tied the knot with Levantine Arab brothers – what’s your story?

As-salamu alaykum! I’m a Pakistani sister thinking about marrying a Jordanian brother, and I’d really love to hear from sisters who’ve walked this path. What’s your marriage been like? What cultural surprises came up after the wedding? How did things go with your husband and his family? I’d be so grateful to know the sweetest moments and the tough ones too. I’m also trying to figure out how to safeguard myself Islamically before the nikah. Is there anything you wish you’d put in your marriage contract? Any rights or boundaries you’d say are a must to talk about beforehand? Here’s what’s on my mind: - How much do your in-laws step into your marriage? - Did you ever feel looked down on for being from a different background? - How do you and your husband sort things out when you disagree? - How do you split money matters and house chores? - Did you ever feel pushed to let go of your own culture? - Any warning signs you missed and wish you’d caught earlier? - What would you tell another Asian Muslim sister marrying into a Levantine Arab family? This isn’t about putting anyone in a box-I know every family and marriage is its own world. I just want to hear real experiences, the good and the hard, so I can go in with open eyes and a wise heart. If you’ve been married a long while, I’d especially love to hear how things shifted over the years. Jazakum Allahu khairan for sharing your wisdom and stories.