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Seeking Advice About Starting a Family in Today's World

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I hope you're all well. I wanted to share some worries I have about my future and seek some guidance. I live in a country that's considered Muslim, but honestly, the daily environment feels very far from our Islamic values, especially when you look at public behavior, speech, and the way people dress. It's genuinely concerning and makes me feel uneasy just going outside. I'm a young man, and my biggest goal, insha'Allah, is to have a righteous family and a stable home. But looking at how things are in society, finding a pious spouse and raising children in this kind of atmosphere feels like a huge challenge. It makes the whole prospect seem risky and unsafe. Does anyone have any serious advice or thoughts on navigating this? How can you build a strong, Islamic family life in a time and place where these values aren't the norm? Jazakum Allahu khairan for listening.

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Totally get it. Find your circle of practicing friends. Support makes the journey bearable. May Allah grant you a righteous spouse and ease your fears.

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It's a real struggle. Prioritize character over everything else when looking for a partner. And honestly, limit social media exposure for your future kids. That stuff is toxic.

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