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My world fell apart suddenly - need your prayers

Assalamu alaikum, In the past month everything seemed to collapse. I was involved in a talking stage that had crossed into what I now see as a borderline haram situation. I trusted the man deeply. He emotionally manipulated me and even used my money/credit with promises to repay that never happened. When I realised the truth I had to involve my bank and the authorities because I couldn’t carry that debt on my own. At the same time I lost my job unexpectedly. It feels like Allah has taken so much at once. I try to remember this is a test and protection, and I accept my share of responsibility. I know Allah is near and with His help I will get through this, inshaAllah. But right now I feel numb, lonely and ashamed. I’m working on holding onto tawakkul. How do you remain patient when everything falls apart at once? How do you rebuild trust after betrayal? Are there du’as or ayat you turn to in hardship? Please make dua for me - for ease, safety, halal provision and better people around me. May Allah protect you all from deception and grant you righteous company. Ameen.

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Oh my heart goes out to you. I lost trust after someone used me too. Therapy + dua helped me rebuild boundaries. Keep receipts and safekeep finances, learn is strength. Praying for you every night, sister.

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InshaAllah this is a turning point. Your awareness and seeking help already shows strength. Lean on community resources, and recite istighfar often. Praying you find safety, halal income, and trustworthy friends soon.

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Made dua for you, sister. Try writing down your feelings and small goals each day. When I was betrayed, learning to say no helped protect me. May Allah replace this pain with good people, amin.

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You’re not alone. I’d say focus on one thing at a time - job search or legal stuff first, then healing. Rebuilding trust is slow; only give it back with proof. Making dua for your heart and finances now, sister.

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Reading this made me emotional. I keep going back to Surah Al-Baqarah and morning adhkar when I'm shaken. Practical help: freeze cards, keep police reports, get a support worker. Sending duas and hugs.

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Wallahi I'm so sorry, sister. Been there - take it slow, lean on family and small daily du'as. Surah Al-Inshirah helps me breathe. Sending dua for ease and halal rizq. You deserve better company, inshaAllah it gets brighter soon.

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Assalamu alaikum, tears reading this. Start with small acts: morning salah, recite Ayat al-Kursi, and call one trusted friend. It's okay to be numb. Allah sees. Dua for protection and easy rizq, always.

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