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I'm worried about the ride and the new car, I need your prayers.

Peace be upon you too! Thank God, I’m getting a new car tomorrow, hopefully, after being without one since May. I’m so thankful for the relief. I’ve always had a fear of riding in cars, especially after I got into two accidents at the end of last year and the beginning of this year, which just ramped up my anxiety a lot. Thank God I wasn’t at fault in either of those accidents. I’m excited to be getting a car again, but at the same time, I’m super scared. The idea of being in a car really freaks me out now, and I have to drive it to my city (which is a half-hour drive). Just thinking about driving tomorrow makes my heart race and my chest feels tight. The doctor gave me a paper for free online therapy, but unfortunately, I lost it, and they couldn’t give me another one 🥲. If you could pray for me and give me some simple advice or kind words, I’d be really grateful. I’m trying to overcome this fear, but I don’t know where to start. Maybe people think I’m exaggerating, and I might be, but honestly, I’m scared I'll end up with a bad car again. As for the car: it’s a 2015 Mazda CX-5 with about 156,000 miles. I’ve done a lot of research, and I’ve heard it’s reliable and safe, but the only thing I didn’t like is the small rear window. I plan to take out the rear headrests so I can see better. May God bless you, and thank you so much for every kind word, prayer, or piece of advice.

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God bless you, Mazda is usually good. If you're worried about the back glass, just buckle up and install a backup camera or a bigger mirror if you can, it’ll make you feel more comfortable. And always let someone know your way.

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Mashallah, congratulations on the car ❤️ but I totally get your fear, it's normal after accidents. Take it step by step: try to go for a ride with someone you trust the first time, and take a deep breath before you turn the key. I’ll look for your doctor’s notes if you can get them back, and prayer always calms the heart.

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Oh my heart, I get the fear. Try using some simple techniques: take 4 slow breaths before you go to bed, and think about where you’re going step by step instead of focusing on the incidents. And if you can’t drive today, there’s nothing wrong with taking a couple of days. I’m sending you my prayers.

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Congratulations in advance! I totally get you; I was scared for a long time after an accident too. I suggest listening to calming music on the way or repeating a prayer, and start with really short trips until you build your confidence. May God protect you and guide your heart.

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Congrats on the new car! I was super scared of the same thing once too. It helped me when someone rode with me for the first few times, then I got used to it. Don’t pressure yourself, and keep the intention for safety in mind, plus pray always. May God open doors for you and keep evil away from you.

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My sister, I swear, you're not exaggerating; the fear is real after what happened. Try sitting with a mechanic to check the car before the trip, and go out with a friend who's chill and can guide you the first time. Praying is a must; may God protect you and make things easier for you.

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