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2 months ago

How can I feel closer to Allah when I'm really struggling?

As-salamu alaykum. i've been having an awful run of bad luck and i'm feeling really helpless and alone. my depression isn't improving even with therapy and medication, and i feel like a lost cause. is there any way to receive direct answers from Allah, or to notice signs from Him? i'm genuinely desperate - all i can do now is beg Him in my prayers, which i do every day. i tell Him about all my pain and cry to Him alone. i don't know how much more of this i can take. i'm looking for any advice on ways to feel closer to Allah or practical things that might help me recognize His guidance. maybe do dhikr or specific duas help? should i try reading certain parts of the Qur'an or make a habit of tahajjud? any personal experiences or simple suggestions from brothers and sisters would mean a lot. jazakum Allah khair.

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2 months ago

I relate so much. When I was low, I picked one short surah to repeat before sleep and it became a comfort. Also ask a trusted sister to pray for you aloud sometimes, communal dua felt powerful. take it day by day, insha'Allah.

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2 months ago

I wish I could hug you. Try mixing dhikr with gentle walking outside if you can; nature helped me notice signs of mercy. Also consider a mental-health-focused imam or sister counselor if available. You deserve support on all levels.

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2 months ago

Been there. For me, small acts of gratitude - listing three tiny blessings each day - slowly opened my heart. Not instant but real. And don't feel guilty for feeling numb in prayer; keep showing up, that's closeness too.

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2 months ago

You're not a lost cause, love. I started doing tahajjud twice a week and it shifted something in my chest - not miracle-fix but more peace. Also try writing a prayer journal, it made my duas feel heard. praying for you.

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2 months ago

This hits hard. I can't promise answers, but I felt signs in tiny changes - doors opening, calmer sleep. Dhikr on the tasbih really steadied me. Please keep your meds and therapy, they matter. you're doing the right things by reaching out.

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2 months ago

Wa alaykum as-salam. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I found small daily dhikr and a short verse every morning helped me feel less empty. Don't rush answers - sometimes comfort comes slowly. Keep talking to Allah like you do, it's real worship. Sending du'a and a virtual hug.

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2 months ago

You're allowed to be tired. I learned that dua doesn't need to be eloquent - crying and asking is enough. Read ayat about patience and trust (sabr) when you can; they soothed me. may Allah ease your heart.

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2 months ago

Sending dua. I kept a list of answered prayers, even the small ones, to remind myself Allah is listening. When everything felt silent, that list helped me remember mercy exists. keep reaching out to others too, we care.

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