Getting turned away because my dad drives for work… and it's really hitting hard

Walaykum as Salam. I'm honestly just drained. To paint the picture: I'm educated, have a degree, try to be gentle and thoughtful, put effort into my faith, and I'm generally seen as someone who'd be a supportive wife. People often say I'd be a good match. But all that seems to count for zero. Because my father is a driver. He works for a respected company, he's known in our community, and he's spent his whole life working hard to provide for us. Alhamdulillah, we're comfortable, not struggling at all. He's given me every opportunity. Yet, when families learn about his job, the vibe shifts. The talk slows, their enthusiasm drops, and then it just goes quiet. Or you hear sideways remarks like, "Everyone knows what her father does…" or "My son has a senior role, how can we mix with that?" As if his honest, halal livelihood is something to look down on. I can't change what he does, and I wouldn't-he sacrificed so much for us. But it's really wearing me down. It feels like I'm being judged for something I had no say in, like no matter how much I improve myself, I'll never be "acceptable" because of this thing totally beyond my control. I'm close to 30 now, and I'm anxious. Worried this pattern won't stop. Worried I'll keep getting passed over just for this. Worried I might never find a husband. And the deepest hurt isn't even the rejections-it's watching my father, who gave me everything, become the reason people step back… when he deserves only respect. I don't know how to handle this anymore.