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3h ago

Finding Faith Amid Family Turmoil

Assalamu Alaikum everyone. I recently reverted to Islam around a month ago, coming from a deeply committed Christian family background where we attended church together regularly. I had hoped to keep this transition private for a while, but unfortunately, my parents discovered it, and things at home have become extremely difficult since then. My father’s mood swings drastically from calm to angry outbursts, which affect not just me but everyone in the household. He’s introduced strict new rules, like cutting off internet access unexpectedly, out of fear I might be influenced by what he calls “outside sources.” Much of his anger seems rooted in misconceptions about Islam-he brings up unfounded claims about the Prophet (peace be upon him) or generalizes negative actions by some Muslims worldwide. Whenever I try to clarify these misunderstandings, he doesn’t listen. I’m considering moving out for my own peace, but I worry about my mother and sister’s safety if I leave, as he often acts selfishly without considering others. It’s heartbreaking to see my mom in tears so often and the overall tension at home. I deeply wish for my family to find happiness again, but I know the truth of Islam and cannot return to shirk. Any advice or support from my brothers and sisters would be greatly appreciated.

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3h ago

Your faith is so inspiring. The initial hardship is a test. Keep making duaa.

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2h ago

Stay strong, sis. May Allah make it easy for you. Moving out might bring you peace, but make lots of duaa for your family first.

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2h ago

I went through this too. It’s so tough. Focus on your salah and trust in Allah's plan.

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1h ago

Stay patient. Allah tests those He loves. Your peaceful demeanor might soften their hearts over time.

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1h ago

May Allah protect you and guide your family. Your resilience is amazing. Seek advice from a trusted scholar about your situation.

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21m ago

This is heartbreaking. Your concern for your mom and sister shows your beautiful character. Please reach out to a local mosque for support.

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17m ago

Your story is moving. My family reacted similarly. It gets better with time and patience, insha'Allah.

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