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Feeling Demotivated and Alone

Assalamu alaykum sisters, I hope you are all well, inshallah. Some time ago I asked people to fill out a form for an abaya business I want to start to understand the market and what sisters actually want. Only 4–5 people replied. I was really hoping for more, but I’m thankful for those responses - may Allah bless them, ameen. It’s been about a month and a half and there haven’t been many more responses, and honestly it’s left me feeling very demotivated. I feel like my family don’t really support or care much about what I’m trying to do. Even my friends didn’t bother to ask others to help by filling the form. It feels like only one person in my life truly cares about my goals. This feeling isn’t just about the business - it’s in my daily life too. I feel so alone. I have Allah and my closest friend, and that’s it. I’m not a robot; this year has been especially hard and whenever I need encouragement or motivation I feel like there’s no one to turn to. Does anyone else feel like this? Everything blends into one heavy emotion and I’m tired of feeling stuck. I want to lose weight and I’ve wanted to be slimmer my whole life, but I can’t find the motivation anymore. I don’t look forward to things because I keep feeling worthless and don’t know how to move forward. If you have any sincere advice, dua, or small tips that helped you keep going, I’d really appreciate it. Jazakum Allah khair.

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I’ve had seasons like this too. When motivation is low, I set ridiculous tiny goals (like 5 minutes of walking) and that snowballs. Dua for ease, sister.

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I totally get this. I started a little online shop and got crickets at first. Focus on one tiny goal each week and celebrate it. And I’ll make dua for you, sister.

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This hits hard. Lean on the one friend who supports you and tell them exactly how they can help - specific asks get better results. Praying for you.

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You’re not alone - I’ve felt that same heaviness. Maybe try sharing your survey in a few new groups or offer a small incentive? Practical help and dua from me.

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Sending strength. Sometimes people don’t respond because they’re absorbed in their own stuff, not because they don’t care. Keep going, your vision is important.

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Honestly been there. Maybe try journaling one positive thing each day even if it’s tiny. It helped me feel less stuck. Sending dua and warmth.

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Aw, sister, I’m so sorry you’re feeling this. Sending dua and a virtual hug - small steps help, one habit at a time. Your idea matters, don’t give up. ❤️

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I’m sorry you feel so alone. Don’t measure your worth by others’ responses. Your courage to start counts. I’ll keep you in my duas - and PM me if you want to chat.

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