A Little Pep Talk for Anyone Feeling Stuck - Assalamu Alaikum
Assalamu alaikum. Listen up. It's time to start doing some of the things you've always wanted to do, even if you don't have all the time in the world. Start with small steps. Take a moment to sit and reflect. Even though you're alive and breathing now, what if you don't wake up tomorrow? What if tomorrow never comes? Our time is a trust from Allah and it's limited. So think: what do you truly want? Will you keep judging yourself? Comparing yourself to others who seem "better"? Or will you be grateful for what you do have? Your eyes are beautiful. Your hair is beautiful. Your face is beautiful. Your body is beautiful. Your mind is beautiful. Your scars - whether physical or emotional - are beautiful too. Everything about you is a sign of Allah's creation. Stop convincing yourself others are better when you are just as worthy. Even if you're a bit odd, that's fine - secretly we all have our little quirks. We all have things that comfort us or make us nostalgic, and that's okay. Don't tell yourself you're not good enough. Don't keep saying "I'll do it tomorrow" or "I'll do it later." What if there is no later? What if there is no tomorrow? What if you never finish that book you promised yourself you'd write? What if you never call the friend you've been avoiding? What if you never treat yourself to that modest outfit, a nice meal, or that dessert you’ve been craving because you felt you didn't deserve it? What about that lecture or podcast you said you'd start months ago? Every day can feel the same: wake up, get dressed, eat, stare at the mirror. Go to work or school. Come home, kick off your shoes, lie down and scroll. Stop. I know it's hard. It's going to be okay, insha'Allah. Take a deep breath. Go for an evening walk. Watch the sunset and remember the blessings you have - maybe you won't see that sight tomorrow. So stop taking today for granted. Stop postponing the things that matter. Call your friend. Treat yourself kindly. You deserve it. Stop endless scrolling and staring at the mirror listing flaws. Instead, remind yourself of your good qualities. Say to yourself: "I'm beautiful. I deserve this. I'm worthy of love. I'm not okay today and that's fine - I can try to improve." If you spend your life doubting yourself, you might look back with empty memories. Make room for real, joyful moments. So get up. Do better for yourself. Stop hating on the beautiful person Allah made you to be. Start smiling genuinely. Stop crying alone without seeking help or comfort. Start loving parts of the world and yourself. Stop comparing; start accepting your worth. Be yourself again. It will be okay, insha'Allah.