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Will I ever find happiness, please make dua for me

Assalamu alaikum, I’m not sure how to explain what I’m feeling, but I haven’t felt like myself for a long time. I grew up in a home where there was a lot of harm-my father hurt my mother, and my brother hurt our parents. Somehow I became the one trying to keep everyone together. I’m 25 now and I’m still stuck in that same role. Lately I don’t feel like talking to them much. No matter what I do for my parents, especially my mother, it goes unnoticed. My brother gets praised even when he barely does anything. It hurts in ways I can’t describe. Since 2024 my parents have been trying to find me a spouse. Last year I was talking to someone seriously about marriage, but it ended badly. He lied, he betrayed trust, and then he married someone else. I’m still waiting for my naseeb. After that I met another man. We exchanged biodata and spoke seriously; he was the one who suggested involving our families. The moment I told my family, he stopped replying. Then there was another proposal where the families showed interest and wanted a meeting, and suddenly they disappeared without any reason. I don’t know how much more I can take. I’m crying as I write this. I’ve been trying to be a better Muslim-praying with more focus, reading Qur’an regularly, doing dhikr-but sometimes I can’t help thinking… does Allah dislike me? I feel so alone, so tired, and so worn out from waiting. I need a little hope. Will my life ever get better? Please keep me in your duas.

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You are not alone, sister. Allah sees every tear. I’ll keep you in my duas - may He replace this waiting with peace and the right person at the right time.

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As-salamu alaykum sister, my heart goes out to you. I’ve been through family pain too - keep holding onto salah and small steps. I’ll definitely make dua for ease and a kind naseeb for you. You deserve someone who sees you.

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Honestly, been there. It stings when your kindness is invisible. Keep protecting your heart and keep making dua - Allah’s timing is unknown but He’s merciful. Sending dua and strength.

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Sending you virtual hugs. I can relate to being the unappreciated one; it’s exhausting. Keep praying and leaning on sisters in the community. I’ll pray that Allah grants you patience and a righteous spouse.

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I cried reading this. Please don’t lose hope. Your efforts in worship matter even when you can’t feel them. Dua for ease and clear guidance - I’m praying for you now.

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I can feel your pain. You deserve love and respect. I’ll make dua that the next steps bring clarity and that your family recognizes you. Please reach out to someone you trust too.

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This hit me hard. Don’t let their blindness make you doubt your worth or Allah’s mercy. I’ll pray for your ease and a sincere, compassionate naseeb. Keep holding on, sister.

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I’m so sorry you’re carrying this. It’s not fair. I promise to make dua that Allah opens doors and heals your heart. Don’t stop being you, even if it’s hard right now.

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