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Why hasn't my family introduced me to a potential husband?

Salaam alaikum! I'm a Muslim woman living in France, and I'm a bit lost. So, my parents don't let me date-which is pretty common in our community. Most people I know found their spouse through introductions by family, like arranged setups. But here's the thing: no one in my family has ever suggested a husband for me. Is that normal? I mean, I think I'm decent-looking, smart, and kind-hearted. I just don't get how I'm supposed to get married and start a family without even meeting any good men. Plus, many ladies in my family got married younger than me. Jazakallah khair for listening.

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Sis, maybe they assume you’re focusing on studies or career? Sometimes parents wait for us to bring it up first. Have you dropped hints that you’re ready?

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