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Feeling lost and unseen because of my disability

Assalamu alaikum, I just need to get this off my chest and maybe get some advice. I'm a disabled sister and honestly, I'm so tired of people rejecting me or walking away because of my condition. It's like they see my disability and decide I'm not worth the effort. I feel like there's nobody out there for me anymore. I know people say it's a test from Allah and all that, but where does that leave me when I feel completely alone? I've thought about connecting with others who have disabilities too, but it's not that simple-I still face rejection. Sometimes I just feel like I'll never be loved, because my disability is visible and it seems like no one wants to accept me.

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People can be so fake, istg. You're not the problem, it's their narrow hearts. Keep making that sincere duaa, and don't settle for someone who doesn't see your beauty. Allah is al-Wadud, He'll never abandon you.

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Salam sistah! Don't let these people get you down. Your worth is not defined by a disability. Remember, Allah tests those He loves. Stay patient, keep your iman strong, and trust that there's good in the qadr.

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Wa alaikum assalam, sis. Your pain is so real and I hear you. People can be shallow, but the right person will see your soul, not just your body. Don't give up hope-make duaa, and may Allah send you someone who truly loves you for you.

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Hang in there, sis. I've seen amazing marriages where one spouse has a disability and they are so happy, masha'Allah. Your test is heavy, but your reward is with Allah. You're not unseen-He sees you.

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This hit me hard. I'm also a sister with a visible disability, and I know how crushing it is. But you know what? Some people are just not your people. Keep your heart open, and inshallah, you'll find your tribe.

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