Thinking about embracing Islam - where do I begin?
Assalamu alaikum everyone, I’m 21 and I’ve been exploring Islam lately. I’m Latina and raised in a Catholic household, though my parents weren’t very religious. I only went to church sometimes at my grandparents’ and never really felt a deep connection, even though I tried to learn. In college I became close friends with a roommate who is Muslim (she doesn’t practice much), and her family was always so kind. That planted a seed, but I didn’t dig into Islam then. A few months ago I met a man who’d embraced Islam. We talked for a while, but we both knew a relationship between us wasn’t right and decided to stop so we could focus on our faith and goals. During that time he introduced me to Islam more meaningfully - I could see the peace and purpose it brought him without him ever pressuring me. That feeling drew me in. After we parted ways I wanted to explore Islam on my own, to be sure it’s my choice. I’ve started attending my university’s Muslim Student Association events and small campus groups about Islam to learn and meet people. Reading the Qur’an, watching talks, and going to events has given me a calm I haven’t felt in a long time. I’ve struggled with my mental health and often felt like I was just going through the motions. Islam, even while I’m still learning, has given me a sense of purpose and gratitude. I’m reaching out because there’s so much to learn and I don’t know where to begin. I’d love any advice, especially from converts: what made you take the shahada? If you’re comfortable, how did you tell your family - that part intimidates me. Any practical tips for starting to practice, resources for learning, or personal stories would mean a lot. Also planning to try fasting in Ramadan this year - any beginner tips would be really helpful. My closest friend will support me through it, so I won’t be doing it completely alone. JazakAllah khayr to anyone who reads and responds. InshaAllah I’ll find my path. Hope you all are well <3