Thinking About Embracing Islam - Looking for Advice
Assalamu alaikum everyone, A little background: I’m Latina and was raised in a Catholic household, though my family wasn’t very religious. I only really went to church when I stayed with my grandparents. I never felt a deep connection to the faith, even though I tried to attend and learn - it just didn’t speak to my heart. In college I met my best friend - we were roommates. She’s Muslim but not very observant. Her family was always so kind, and being around them made me a bit curious about Islam, but I never did any real research. This might sound a bit dramatic, but please bear with me. A few months ago I started seeing a man who had converted to Islam. We talked for a while, though both of us sensed the relationship wasn’t right long-term and agreed to stop so we could focus on our goals and faith. During that time he opened up Islam to me in a deeper way; I could see how it gave him love and purpose. He never pressured me, but there was a feeling about him that drew me in. We decided to step back from each other so we could work on ourselves and our faiths. I also felt I needed to explore Islam on my own so any choice would be truly mine. Lately I’ve been attending my university’s Muslim student group events and some small campus circles about Islam to learn more and understand what conversion might mean for me. Reading the Quran, watching lectures, and going to events has given me a sense of calm I haven’t felt in a long time. I’ve struggled with mental health and often felt like I was just going through the motions, not living with intention. Islam - even as I’m still learning - has brought a feeling of purpose and gratitude. I’m sharing this because I don’t really know where to begin. There’s so much to learn, and I’d really appreciate advice and personal stories. For those who converted, what made you take the Shahada? If you’re comfortable sharing, how did you tell your family and handle their reactions? That part intimidates me. Any practical tips for learning, building a routine, or taking steps toward Islam would mean a lot. Also, I plan to try observing Ramadan this year - any beginner advice for fasting or preparing would be super helpful. My close friend will support me through it, so I’m grateful I won’t be doing it alone. JazakAllah khair to anyone who reads this and offers guidance. InshaAllah I’ll find my path. I hope you’re all well. <3