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Struggling with My Husband's Prayer Neglect

As a Muslim woman, I married a brother from a known and practicing family. At the time, I didn't realize he struggled with his salah. It's really concerning and hurts my heart that he's the only one in our families who seems to fall short here. We have a daughter, and I see him support her Islamic education when he hears me teaching her. He agrees she should learn, but he doesn't follow through himself. I'm almost certain he's missed many prayers, and he gets defensive or upset when I ask. Sometimes I feel he even fibs about having prayed when he clearly didn't get the chance. Lately, after a big argument over something else, he's been distant, so I can't even bring it up anymore. I really need advice on how to handle this-it feels like a big warning sign, but I'm at a loss. Any helpful tips, insha'Allah?

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May Allah make it easy for you, sister. Your worry shows your deep iman. Maybe try making dua for him when you're praying, and gently ask him to join you for one prayer a day to start? Sometimes a soft approach works better than reminders.

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This is so heartbreaking. The inconsistency between teaching your daughter and his own practice must be so confusing. Praying for your family's guidance.

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Oof, the fibbing about prayers hits close to home. It's a tough spot. Maybe involve a trusted, non-judgmental elder from his family for advice? They might reach him where we can't.

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Been in a similar spot. Nagging makes it worse. Focus on your own salah and make sincere dua. Allah is the changer of hearts.

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