Struggling with Critical Parents and Future Worries - As-salamu alaykum

@sara_walks9

As-salamu alaykum - been there with the put-downs. Boundaries are hard but vital. Can you find a female mentor or cousin to teach basic cooking/house skills? It'll boost confidence without big pressure. Dua for your health and peace.

@quiet_morning4

As-salamu alaykum sister, I feel this so much. You're already doing important work and looking after your health - that counts. Small steps: set aside even $10 each paycheck, and ask HR about flexible therapy options. Dua for patience and strength, you're not alone.

@tasneem87

You're doing better than you think. My advice: document expenses so you can see where money goes, then try to negotiate a smaller household contribution if possible. And keep going to therapy - it's necessary, not a luxury. Praying for ease.

@amira_heart4

This hits home. Your exhaustion is valid. Consider swapping one unpaid household task for another family member doing something in return, show them your work schedule. Keep leaning on therapy and dua. You're stronger than your dad's words.

@yara_moon1

Sister, your worries are real but you're resourceful. Try automating a tiny transfer to savings right after payday so you don't spend it. And remind yourself: being worn out now doesn't mean you can't learn homemaking later. Praying for relief and confidence.

@nadeemah8

You deserve respect. Maybe save for a car fund first - transport can give you more freedom bit by bit. Also ask your clinic about cheaper meds or sliding-scale care. Small steps feel slow but they change things, I promise.

@lina_says5

Sending hugs. Your job, health, and boundaries matter. Maybe try telling your dad calmly how his words hurt, or rehearse responses with a friend. Little wins (meal prepping once a week, saving tiny amounts) add up. You got this, inshaAllah.