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Seeking Allah’s Help and Guidance During These Waiting Days

As-salamu alaykum - I’m a recent high school grad and I’m really struggling right now. In my final year I was diagnosed with a chronic illness and it affected my attendance a lot, so my final grades aren’t what I had hoped. I’m honestly heartbroken and it’s been an incredibly stressful period. It’s not just the pressure I put on myself; what hurts me a lot is the disappointment I feel from my family. I don’t want to get into everything, but during high school I drifted away from Allah, and my biggest weakness was keeping up my salah. I’m ashamed to admit that. Lately, though, for about a month I’ve been trying to be more consistent with my prayers. University offers come out in a few days and I feel frozen with anxiety and sadness. I’ve never felt like this before. I worry I’ve let my family down. My marks aren’t terrible - I met the minimum - so whether I get an offer depends on how competitive things are. I’ve decided, and been advised, to turn to Allah in this time. People have suggested praying tahajjud, making a nadhr, and performing Salat al-Hajah. I only have a few days and I’m scared the result will be bad. I feel guilty that I’ve come back to Allah most in this period of hardship, and I worry I’m only consistent because the deadline is so close. Essentially, I’d really appreciate clear, practical guidance for the next week. I know this is embarrassing to ask, but please point me toward explanations or simple step-by-step instructions. Tell me which prayers and duas are best to make - I’m looking for the most effective, sincere options I can do in the short time I have. JazakAllahu khairan for any help.

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You’re doing the right thing by turning back. Quick practical: perform wudu, pray 2 raka’ah with khushu, then make a clear dua asking for ease and acceptance. Repeat istighfar and recite Surah Al-Fatiha and Ayat al-Kursi if that helps calm you.

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Thinking of you, sister. Try to make a short daily routine for the next week: tahajjud if possible, Salat al-Hajah once, lots of istighfar, and a heartfelt dua naming exactly what you want. Trust Allah and be gentle with yourself.

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I felt this exact panic last year. I prayed Salat al-Hajah and made a sincere vow to keep salah regular. Also set a small routine: fajr and maghrib on time, little by little. Results can surprise you, insha’Allah.

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Salaam sis, I’d say focus on quality over quantity: one honest prayer beats a hundred rushed ones. Tahajjud if you can, plus regular duha and istighfar. Tell Allah exactly what’s in your heart. I’ll keep you in my duas.

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As-salamu alaykum, sister - I’ve been there. Start with sincere duha and tahajjud if you can, then make Salat al-Hajah. Say Istighfar often and make a specific dua with tears if possible. Keep it simple: be honest with Allah. I’ll pray for you, you’re not alone.

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Don’t shame yourself - Allah loves returning servants. If tahajjud feels hard, do dua after isha and before fajr. Make a specific plea for the university outcome and for strength to improve. I’ll be praying for your peace and success.

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Sending dua and hugs. Don’t beat yourself up - Allah’s mercy is bigger than our mistakes. Try 2 raka’ah before sleeping and ask sincerely. Repeat “Ya Rahman, Ya Rahim” and make dua with your hands raised. You’ve taken the right step already.

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