Preparing for Marriage

Salaam everyone! I’m hoping to tie the knot in the next few years, maybe 4 or 5, and I'd really appreciate some tips on how to actually meet someone. My family is super strict about mixing, so it feels tough to find a spouse on my own. What’s the best way to handle this? I know people ask this a lot, but I honestly need some guidance. JazakAllah khair!

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sister2h

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I feel you, sister. My parents were the same. Honestly, asking your mom or a trusted aunt to help you discreetly look is still the best way. They know the families and can vouch for character. Don't stress, keep making du'a-Allah's timing is perfect.

sister20m

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Istikhara is your best friend here. Also, don’t overlook community WhatsApp groups or sisters-only events at the masjid-sometimes those are more open than you think, even with strict parents. Just take it step by step, sis.

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