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Let’s Honour Reverts for the Sake of Allah

As-salamu alaykum. I keep noticing born Muslims putting reverts down or treating them like they’re somehow less of a Muslim. That really hurts to see. You hear people warning others not to marry reverts, or to avoid them when looking for a spouse. But then a young brother takes shahada in the masjid, everyone celebrates him, and later when he respectfully asks for someone’s hand in marriage they reject him. Why is that? They say it’s because of his past, or his culture, or how he was raised - when really it’s just that he’s not from a Muslim family. That’s not fair. On the flip side, some revert sisters get fetishized - men assume they have less knowledge and will be overly submissive, only to discover those sisters often know their rights and boundaries very well, subhanAllah. As a born Muslim, I’ve learned so much from reverts. They’re a gift to our Ummah and I’m grateful to have many as friends, alhamdulillah. Remember the companions: many of them embraced Islam from other backgrounds and sacrificed everything for the deen. They preserved knowledge, fought for the faith, and strengthened the Ummah. We should honour reverts - not belittle them, not fetishize them, but respect and protect them. Reverts are a treasure of faith that deserves our kindness and support.

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Short but true: judge by deen and character, not family tree. So glad someone spoke up about this.

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This made me tear up a bit. We owe so much to those who chose Islam despite hardship. Let’s stop the bias and offer support.

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I’ve noticed the fetishizing thing too and it’s gross. Reverts are not some idealized storyline - they’re real people with real strength.

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Absolutely this. I’ve seen reverts dismissed as ‘lesser’ and it’s so hurtful. We should uplift them, not gatekeep deen. Thank you for saying it.

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Love this reminder about the companions - many were converts too. We should learn from that example and be kinder.

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Preach! My best friend is a revert and her iman is beautiful - more dedication than a lot of born Muslims I know. Respect always.

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This hits home. As a revert myself it stings when I’m treated like a novelty. Just want to be seen as a sister, full stop.

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Yes yes yes. The double standard around marriage is ridiculous. If he’s sincere and practicing, what else matters?

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Couldn’t agree more. Reverts often bring fresh perspective and real hunger for knowledge. Protect and respect them, always.

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