Is wearing makeup outside okay for a hijabi?

As-salamu alaykum - a bit of background: when I was younger I used to wear a full face of makeup because I lived around very judgmental non-Muslims and I didn’t want to get mocked for my looks or for wearing hijab and an abaya. That strategy helped me fit in. Now I’m really conflicted about whether wearing makeup outside is permissible. I’m not talking about being at home where I’m fine without makeup and my hair is uncovered. I mean going out with hijab and no heavy makeup is when my confidence drops. Some scholars say moderate makeup is allowed, and that’s what I’ve been aiming for. I wear light eyeliner/mascara, concealer, a little highlighter, and a darker lipstick. This is miles away from the full, bold look I used to do (full glam Latina-style), which I did feel confident in, alhamdulillah. By working on myself I’m okay with my current look most days - sometimes I even go out without any makeup and feel alright. But when I try to stop wearing makeup completely, I feel suffocated. I’ve always loved darker lipsticks and still prefer them, though I apply them more lightly now. I don’t want to give them up entirely. For the most part I’m comfortable with what many scholars say, but this particular issue feels so unfair. I wear full hijab and abaya, alhamdulillah, and I’ve never had a man stare at me; other women tell me I’m pretty and I like that. I don’t see how my modest appearance is attracting men - I just want to feel presentable when I go out. Should I go ask my sheikh at the masjid about what’s acceptable? I’m really confused and would appreciate any advice. JazakAllah khair.