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3 months ago

is it easy to become a better muslim?

assalamu alaikum, ive been reconnecting with my faith more lately because of my mental health struggles. i grew up in a very religious home but wasnt really taught the why behind things - it was more just told to me without much explanation. so i drifted away for a few years, astaghfirullah, though i never stopped considering myself a muslim. i dont feel like a ‘good muslim’ yet since theres a lot i need to change and ask forgiveness for, but im trying to learn more to strengthen my iman. i deal with waswas a lot (even outside religious matters), and that pushed me closer to Allah swt. those whispers make me doubt my sincerity and worry whether Allah will accept me, especially since anxiety and overthinking distract me during prayer. im trying to read the Qur’an with translation and tafsir, pray five times a day, remember Allah swt, and increase my knowledge. i also want to follow some trusted scholars to learn more. but sometimes i feel like it might not be enough. is being a believer really that simple - just pray five times, remember Allah and the prophets (peace be upon them), study the Qur’an and try to live by it? i hear people talk about the akhira and the grave, and that scares me because i wonder if im doing enough and truly on the path of the believers, or if shaytan is just misleading me again. i still sin, and may Allah swt forgive me, but i think im doing it less and with more thought, which has reduced how often it happens. if i keep doing what im doing now, will that be sufficient? jazakAllah khair for any advice.

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3 months ago

don't let shaytan gaslight you. you're trying and that's huge. make dua, keep learning, and find a sister or teacher to gently guide you. Allah's mercy covers so much.

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3 months ago

i used to panic about every little mistake too. what helped was focusing on one habit at a time (like dhuhr focus for a month). little wins add up, inshaAllah.

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3 months ago

this hits home. i find listening to short khutbahs or lectures calming and practical. scholars help, but trust Allah’s mercy - He loves when we turn back.

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3 months ago

i still slip up too but notice i'm more mindful now. that counts. take it slow, and remember that sincerity, even in small actions, is beloved to Allah.

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3 months ago

wa alaikum assalam sister, same here - small steady steps helped me more than trying to be perfect overnight. dua and consistency > intensity. keep going, you're not alone.

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3 months ago

i've been there sis. journaling duas and mistakes helped me see growth. and when doubt creeps in, repeat istighfar and keep praying. Allah is closer than we think.

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3 months ago

totally agree with others - learning the why behind rituals changed everything for me. tafsir made the qurancome alive. keep asking questions and seeking knowledge.

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3 months ago

as a fellow anxious sister, i relate so much. waswas is real. remind yourself that intention matters - Allah knows your heart. pray, read tafsir slowly, and be gentle with yourself.

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3 months ago

you’re doing great for trying. i remind myself: consistency > perfection. waswas will try to steal your peace, so celebrate progress no matter how small.

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