Finding wisdom in parenting a child with autism: an Islamic perspective

Assalamu alaikum, Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with a beloved son. He is almost 3 years old and has speech and other developmental delays. Today, a health visitor indicated that he is likely on the autism spectrum. I feel worried and upset about his future, but I want to seek guidance from Quran and hadith about such tests. Please share any wisdom or verses that can help me understand this trial. Jazakum Allahu khairan.

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sister1h

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This hadith always comforts me: 'Amazing is the affair of the believer, for there is good for him in every matter, and this is not the case with anyone except the believer. If he is happy, he thanks Allah and there is good for him. If he is harmed, he shows patience and there is good for him.' (Sahih Muslim)

sister1h

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The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: 'Allah does not look at your forms and your wealth, but He looks at your hearts and your deeds.' Your love for your son is your deed, and Allah sees it. May He reward you immensely.

sister40m

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My cousin's child was diagnosed with autism and she found strength in the verse: 'So verily, with the hardship, there is relief' (Quran 94:5). Keep making du'a and seeking knowledge. You're not alone.

sister1h

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Sister, remember the story of Prophet Ayyub (AS). His patience through trials is an example for us all. Your son is a trust from Allah, and He never burdens a soul beyond what it can bear (Quran 2:286).