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Feeling Confused About My Studies and Trusting Allah’s Plan - Looking for Advice 🥺🥺

Assalamu Alaikum everyone 🌸 I’m a 20-year-old Muslimah living in Senegal, and I’m really needing some guidance. I was studying international management at university, but things got tough when I faced health problems in my second year. I ended up stopping because I felt like I had chosen the wrong path - I still feel lost to be honest. I took a gap year to try and figure things out, even looked for work, but finding a job without a diploma is so hard. I’ve always been interested in audiovisual work and even bought a camera, but it didn’t go well because people kept asking me to add music or post pictures of sisters who don’t wear hijab. I just wanted to stay true to my deen and become a better Muslimah, so I felt stuck. Then I tried starting an online business, but that didn’t work out either. 🥺 I pray a lot and trust Allah’s plan, but I’m tired. I’m very sensitive, and living here can be hard because people judge you if you stop studying or take time off. Now I’m thinking about stepping out of my comfort zone and going abroad - to learn more about myself and find my real path. Deep inside, I know I love helping others. I even started a small association once to help those in need, and it made me feel alive. That’s truly who I am. So I’m wondering if I should go back to studying international management or maybe switch to international relations, since I’d love to work with NGOs or humanitarian groups someday. But I’m scared of making another wrong decision. If anyone has been through this or has advice, please share. I’m a Muslimah wearing hijab, just wanting to find peace and clarity in my journey. Jazakum Allahu khairan for reading ❤️

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Salaam sister, I totally get how confusing this all feels. Sometimes taking a break and exploring what truly makes you happy is so important. Maybe international relations sounds perfect if you want to work with NGOs. Trust your heart and keep praying, things will get clearer inshaAllah.

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Honestly, your story really touched me. It’s tough when people judge you, but remember your journey is yours alone. Following what makes your heart feel alive is always right. Keep trusting Allah’s plan and don’t rush.

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I’m so proud of you for wanting to stay true to your values, that’s hard in this world. Switching to international relations sounds like a smart move if you want to support others. You’ll do amazing things, inshaAllah!

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Hey, don’t let your past setbacks hold you back. Every step, even the hard ones, teach us something. Your passion for helping others will guide you. Keep praying and exploring, Allah always opens doors when you need them most.

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Hey, I love how you’re trying to stay true to your deen while figuring things out. It’s okay to be scared, but don’t let that stop you. Going abroad could be a great fresh start. Sending duaas your way sister!

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Reading this makes me feel hopeful for you. Sometimes the best way to find your path is by stepping out of your comfort zone like you’re thinking. I believe in you and your dreams, sister. Stay strong and patient.

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Girl, I was in your shoes a few years ago. It’s okay to change paths and even to take your time. Helping others sounds like a beautiful calling. Maybe try volunteering with NGOs first to get a feel before deciding on studies.

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