Excessive haya or just me being shy?

Assalamu alaikum - Haya is such a lovely part of our deen, and I really appreciate it as a Muslim woman. But sometimes I worry my shyness might be going too far, more than just healthy modesty. I don’t mean hijab or outward modesty - alhamdulillah I feel okay with that balance. I mean my inner mindset and how I act. I’m extremely shy around men, especially Muslim men. I’ve been like this as long as I can remember. Even male teachers or male colleagues make me want to hide. I’ve tried to work on it, but inside I just feel like disappearing unless I know them well. In social settings with Muslim men, no matter how long I’ve known them, I still don’t feel comfortable speaking up. On top of that, I do want to get married and hope to be a wife and mother, inshaAllah. But the thought of living with and interacting closely with a man overwhelms me. Intimacy worries me - I’m very private about my body, and the idea of someone else seeing me vulnerable feels almost unbearable. I can’t even wear more form-fitting or less covering clothes around other women, not my mother or close friends. Even if I like how something looks, I clam up if I have to show it. How will I handle this if I get married? I also dislike being the center of attention. I avoid it whenever possible. Parties focused on me, like graduation celebrations, felt excruciating. Weddings with everyone watching me? No thanks. I’d rather mingle and enjoy time with people without being the main focus. It seems like I’m different from many women my age (I’m 20). Others are excited to post outfits, interact with men they like, and dream about wedding days. I enjoy those things in theory, but when it’s my turn I freeze. So am I hiding myself in an unhealthy way? Is this level of shyness normal? Any advice or personal experiences would be really helpful.