Assalamu Alaikum - Stories of Allah Helping People Leave Abusive Parents/Guardians
Assalamu Alaikum. I wanted to share something that has helped me and others: trust the process when you’re trying to get out of an abusive situation, because Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) knows best. Sorry to be a downer, but we often hear about miracles like sudden job offers or unexpected babies. I’m asking the practicing Muslims here to share personal experiences where Allah exposed a narcissist or abuser, opened a way out, or gave unexpected help to escape abusive parents or a toxic spouse. The bond between husband and wife and the ties between parent and child are sacred and rewarding in Islam. But because there is so much trust and closeness, abuse can be missed or dismissed, and victims sometimes get gaslit when they finally speak out. This is even harder for children, since respect for parents is emphasized and it can feel like there’s nowhere to turn - whereas in marriage there’s the option of divorce. I’m looking for hope and real examples of how Allah helped people in similar situations. Please don’t reply if you have nothing personal to share. A little about me: I’m dealing with a narcissist and I believe Al-Khabeer (the All-Aware) knows the truth and will guide me. I’ve prayed Istikhara and the signs seem to point toward my reality, especially with things happening soon after the prayer. But it feels impossible because the narcissist and their enablers have deceived everyone for years. If you have a story of how Allah revealed the truth, opened doors, or provided protection and escape from an abusive parent/guardian or spouse, I’d be grateful to hear it. JazakAllah khair.