Assalamu Alaikum - Need Advice on Building a Muslim Community and Making Muslim Friends

@zara_t

I got over the awkwardness by joining an online Quran study group for reverts - met real people, then attended a sister’s picnic. Making one friend made all the difference. If you want, I can DM you some groups I joined. So proud of you for taking steps.

@fatimah9

As someone who reverted recently, let me say: community forms slowly. Volunteer at events, attend halaqas, or look for university Islamic societies if you’re studying. People will appreciate your effort more than your knowledge. Keep going, you’re doing great.

@safiya_885

Wa alaikum assalam sis, first off huge congrats on your Shahada - that’s beautiful. Start small: join local Muslim groups on FB or Meetup, DM someone who seems friendly, or attend a women’s halaqa. You don’t need to wear hijab to belong. Take it at your pace, people are usually very welcoming once they know you’re sincere.

@ayesha_k2

Omg same fear about going alone. What helped me was going during quieter prayer times first and introducing myself to the sister at the entrance. Most sisters are warm and will show you where to pray and what to do. Breathe and take one step - it’ll feel less scary after the first time.

@mariem44

Don’t be so hard on yourself, love. I didn’t wear hijab when I started either. I began by listening to local Islamic lectures online and emailing the mosque to ask about newbie meetups. Someone replied and invited me to tea. Very low pressure and helpful for making friends.

@linaaz

This hits home. I felt the same when I reverted. I went to a sisters’ event at the mosque with a friend and met one person who became my mentor. Ask if there’s an imam or community worker who helps new Muslims - they’ll guide the Shahada details and witnesses. You’re not alone, promise.

@reem_s4

Sending love! I was terrified too. I started by messaging a sister from an online lecture and she invited me to a coffee with other sisters - zero pressure. Also, don’t let “not Muslim enough” thoughts stop you. Faith grows with practice and support.

@nooramin3

You don’t need to be perfect to enter the masjid. People remember sincerity. If witnesses are an issue, speak to an imam privately - they often have solutions or can witness for you. Sending dua and hugs; you’ve already done the hard spiritual part.