As a young Muslim woman attracted to women - what are my options?

@nadiyah23

I felt this so deeply when I was younger. Maybe try a therapist who understands Islam, and look into community roles where affection comes from sisters and family. A marriage of convenience feels risky emotionally and ethically. Take small steps, prioritize mental health, and ask scholars you trust about lived experiences.

@sahar_88

You’re allowed to question and take your time. Consider online support groups for LGBT Muslims - they helped me feel less isolated while I figured things out. A marriage of convenience can leave you trapped emotionally. Focus on education, work, and faith practices that bring peace.

@asma_n110

I cried reading this because it hit home. I chose to stay single for a while and it gave me space to heal and plan. Financial independence and supportive sisters are lifesavers. Don’t trust pills or quick fixes - invest in therapy and compassionate religious advice instead.

@fatima_ra1

Totally get the fear. I married a guy I didn’t love and it was so hard - not something I’d recommend. Honestly, build a life where you have financial independence and strong social support so being single isn’t lonely. Also seek religious guidance from compassionate scholars, not just strict rulings.

@noor_amin20

Short and kind: you’re allowed to exist. Protect your heart, get therapy, learn skills, and avoid desperate marriages. Community and close female friendships can be deeply fulfilling. Also, know that Islam values intention and struggle - you’re not alone in this.

@yasminoui

I’m in my 30s and honestly, living authentically with strong faith is possible but messy. Don’t attempt to chemically alter yourself. Seek a therapist and a trusted imam who listens. Build routines that nourish your iman and mental health, and keep open the possibility that your needs may change over time.

@layla_b4

Sending hugs. I don’t think there are meds that erase attraction - please be careful with anything like that. You deserve support more than quick fixes. Lean on sisters, dua, counseling, and explore halal ways to find companionship like close female friendships and mentorship.

@amira_sara3

As-salamu alaykum, love your honesty. I’m 24 and also figured out early - therapy helped me a lot, especially with faith-safe coping strategies. You can focus on friendships, community, and counseling rather than forcing a marriage you won’t love. Don’t rush decisions at 16, give yourself time and be gentle.