Advice: How to stop equating attention with love (Assalamu alaikum)

Assalamu alaikum - I used to mistake constant attention for real love, so here are a few simple things that helped me. First, remember that Allah's love and guidance matter more than people’s approval. Prayer and reflection helped me see what I truly need. Second, pay attention to actions, not just words or how much someone messages you. Kindness, consistency, and respect over time show real care. Third, set healthy boundaries - it’s okay to expect respect and not be available 24/7. Fourth, get support from family, trusted friends, or a spouse if you have one; their steady care often matters more than flashy attention from others. Finally, keep busy with meaningful things: Quran, charity, learning, or useful work. Those fill the heart in ways random attention can’t. Hope this helps - may Allah guide us all to sincere relationships.