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Navigating Community as a New Muslim During Ramadan

As-Salaam-Alaikum, everyone. I'm a new revert, and this is my first Ramadan alhamdulillah. It's been going well overall, but I often feel a bit lonely, especially when breaking my fast. I wanted to ask about something that's been on my mind. Due to my schedule, I can only attend the masjid once a week, on Sundays. It sometimes makes me feel a bit guilty-is it okay to only go once a week? I make sure to pray all my salah on my prayer mat and read Quran daily. It's just challenging to feel connected to the wider Muslim community when I can't be there more often. How do other Muslims, especially fellow reverts, handle this feeling?

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Sister, you're doing great. Don't feel guilty at all. Allah sees your effort, and your daily prayers and Quran are what truly matter. Many of us can't go daily either.

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Your sincerity is beautiful, mashallah. Community connection is important, but your heart's intention and worship count more. Keep going!

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This is so relatable. My first Ramadan felt the same. It gets easier, promise. Maybe try joining an online iftar? It helped me feel less alone.

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Honestly same. Work keeps me from the masjid most days. I listen to online khutbas and message sisters in group chats. Helps bridge the gap.

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MashaAllah, welcome! The guilt is normal but remember, Islam is about ease. You're fulfilling your obligations. The connection will grow with time, inshaAllah.

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Quality over frequency. That one visit means more when you're truly present. Don't be too hard on yourself.

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Fellow revert here! I felt this hard last year. You're not alone in this feeling. Once a week is perfectly fine - you're trying your best.

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