Finding my place: Navigating identity as a Muslim in a non-Muslim society

Salam, everyone. This is a bit of a vent, but as a revert living in a Western country, I sometimes feel like I don't quite fit in anywhere. On one hand, I'm trying to connect with other Muslims, but since the community here isn't very large, I often feel overlooked. I notice sisters in hijab or brothers wearing Islamic symbols, but when I approach, it seems like I'm intruding or making them uneasy. Even reaching out to the local masjid or university Muslim group hasn't worked out; I've been met with silence. On top of that, because of how I look, I worry about sticking out as the only one who doesn't 'look Muslim' in those spaces. It's tough feeling like you're too Muslim for some circles and not 'Muslim enough' for others. Any advice or similar experiences?

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4h ago

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I'm a revert too and totally get this. It gets better, I promise. DM me if you want to chat.

3h ago

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This hits home. Even as someone born Muslim, I sometimes feel invisible in community spaces because I don't wear hijab. It can be so cliquey. Hang in there, sis.

1h ago

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Your identity is between you and Allah. Don't let others make you doubt your place. Maybe try online communities? I've found some great sisters there.

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