My Lifelong Struggle with Zina: Seeking Guidance and Support

As-salamu alaykum, I'm a Moroccan brother from the Netherlands, and I've been struggling with the temptation of Zina my whole life. Despite being raised with Islam, living in a secular society where many haram things are normalized has made it a constant test for me. Alhamdulillah, I've managed to avoid watching inappropriate content and objectifying women, but the desire and attraction are still there. It's not about disrespect, but about the natural feelings I have. I love and respect women, and that's what makes this struggle so confusing. The gym is where I face the biggest challenge - free mixing, talking, and flirting are all normal here, and it's hard to resist. My heart races, and I want to talk and make a connection. Sometimes, women approach me, and we start talking, but I know I should be cautious. I try to do the right thing by ending contact when I realize it's getting too close, but the cycle repeats itself. Many people say 'just get married,' but it's not that simple, especially in a secular country where marriage isn't always taken seriously. Until I can find a suitable partner, the desire doesn't pause, and the test doesn't pause. I ask Allah for forgiveness, make du'a, and promise myself I'll be stronger next time, but the struggle is real. If anyone else is facing this challenge, especially those born and raised in the West, know you're not alone. Let's support each other in our journey to overcome this temptation and stay true to our deen.