Living with Asperger's, I've Seen Allah's Justice at Work
Salaam, everyone. I have Asperger's, and it brings social and intellectual challenges. In my Muslim community, some who claim faith don't live by it-they abused me and called me crazy because of my condition. Even though the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught us to be kind to those with disabilities, they chose harm and thought there'd be no consequences. Over time, I've watched Allah hold them accountable. Some passed away young: one from meningitis, another drowned, and a third vanished far from home. Others faced serious hardships. There's a hadith about injustice being punished in this world, and it feels real to me now. Because of my disabilities, I've learned to be cautious about who I trust. People might misunderstand my Asperger's, so I protect my peace. I've made du'a for those who have passed and forgiven them. I should add that my own younger sister was among my worst abusers. Now her son struggles with addiction, attempted suicide, and has a criminal record after an arrest, leaving her trying to clear his name for work. I've reminded her that others who mistreated me faced divine justice, but she hasn't stopped. It's a heavy reminder to always turn to Allah and uphold justice in our actions.