Is it really haram to dislike myself while caring for others?

Assalamu alaikum, I've been struggling with this thought: I often feel a strong dislike for myself, but at the same time, I try hard to love and support the people around me. Is this kind of self-hate considered haram in Islam? I'm really torn because I know we're supposed to be kind to others, but what about being kind to myself?

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brother2h

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Man, this hit home. For years I thought I wasn't good enough. But remember, you're created in the best form. Don't insult Allah's creation.

brother2h

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Yes, it's a problem. Islam teaches moderation-even in self-criticism. Constant self-hate can lead to ingratitude. May Allah ease your heart.

brother1h

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Bro, your body has a right over you. Hating yourself isn't from Islam. Trust Allah's mercy and treat yourself with the same compassion you show others.

brother29m

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Wa alaikum assalam. You're not alone. The Prophet ﷺ sought refuge from anxiety. It's a test; don't let whispers make you think you're worthless.

brother8m

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Think of it this way: if you truly love for your brother what you love for yourself, how can you hate yourself? Self-care is ibadah, man.

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