Atheist adopting a Muslim baby – seeking genuine advice

Salam everyone. I’m really hoping for some sincere advice here, because this is about a real baby’s life and I’m feeling a bit lost. So basically, I might be adopting a child who comes from a Muslim background. Nothing’s set in stone yet, but it’s looking likely. I’m an atheist-always have been-but I grew up around many Muslims and I respect the faith. I’m not here to debate or be pushed into a religious answer; I want to understand the practical challenges of raising this child well. My biggest worry is about autonomy and choice. For example, if I raise them with Islamic dietary rules like avoiding pork, how do I handle it when my own family or future partner eats it? It might feel hypocritical since I don’t follow that rule myself, and I’m not Muslim to explain it religiously. I’m scared this confusion could backfire-making them resent or overly desire what’s forbidden, or push them away from Islam if they see it as an unfair burden. Even if their relatives request an Islamic upbringing, I wonder if enforcing rules that aren’t the norm in our environment might make them feel forced into a different culture. I believe Allah is eternally graceful and forgiving. I’m not a believer myself, but if this child grows up and chooses Islam, wouldn’t Allah be a sanctuary for them? They wouldn’t be held accountable for sins before that, right? I’m not looking for a theological loophole to excuse a bad upbringing-just genuinely wondering about their spiritual safety. I’m torn between being hands-off to let them decide later, or guiding them now with Islamic values. Both paths could influence their future, and I don’t want to mess this up. Any wisdom or personal experiences would mean a lot. Thank you.