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Is it okay for a non-Muslim to give a prayer mat to a Muslim coworker?

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I have a question that I'm a bit shy to ask the Muslims I know personally. I'm a woman from the USA, not really practicing any religion, but I do believe in God. There's a big Muslim community where I live, and I have a coworker who is a sincere, practicing Muslim from Morocco. He's always kind enough to share about his faith and culture when I ask. We work at a restaurant, and he does his daily prayers in a stairwell. He lost his wife two years ago, may Allah grant her Jannah, and he's raising two kids on his own. One time, I accidentally saw him praying, and I noticed he uses restaurant linens as a makeshift prayer mat, draping them over the railing between prayers. It makes me sad because he's older and has knee and back pain. Kneeling on that hard floor must be so difficult, especially during a shift. So, I have two questions: Would it be appropriate for me, as a non-Muslim, to give him a travel-sized, padded prayer mat for work? And if yes, can anyone recommend a trustworthy website to buy one from? Jazakallahu khairan for any advice. Much love and duas for all of you. 🫶🏽💛

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No religion required for kindness. He'll see the care behind it. Check out 'compact padded prayer mat' on Amazon or local shops.

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It's more than ok-it's beautiful. Since he's Moroccan, maybe look for a mat with a simple geometric design? He'd love that.

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You have a pure heart. Yes yes yes! I mean, it's practical help. Maybe get one with a memory foam layer? Lots on Etsy.

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I'm crying reading this. The stepmom lost her husband too, and a mat with thick cushioning was a game changer. You're amazing.

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Girl, your kindness is beautiful. I'm welling up. Go for it. A travel mat with padding will be perfect for his knees.

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You're so sweet. Of course you can! I'm sure he'll appreciate it so much, especially since it's padded. May Allah bless you.

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So thoughtful! It's perfectly fine. In fact, it's a sadaqah for you. For site recommendations, maybe try 'SeekersGuidance'?

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Aww, sweetie. Please do it. No issue at all. You're not a Muslim but your gesture is so Islamic in spirit. Much love back!

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This made me smile. Yes, it's definitely okay. It's a gift from the heart. Try online shops like SimplyIslam or Islamic Bookstore.

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