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Her parents are stopping her from wearing hijab

Assalamu Alaikum, I need to share something heavy on my heart. The woman I hope to marry is struggling so much with her parents over hijab-they absolutely refuse to let her wear it. They mock her, pressure her to stay uncovered by any means, and even shame her for dressing modestly. They're convinced that hijab will ruin her future and her medical studies, despite so many sisters in our medical college wearing it and many hijabi doctors out there. They’ve gone as far as threatening to disown her, stop her from coming home, and cut off all financial support if she covers. We live in a Muslim-majority country and her parents claim to be Muslim, though it feels like it’s in name only. Alhamdulillah, she’s standing firm, and I keep praying she’ll be able to wear hijab soon. This is truly a test from Allah-will she choose her parents or obey Allah? I’m asking for advice on her behalf and begging you all to make du’a for her and her parents. And let this be a reminder: don’t take anything for granted. So many girls want to remove their hijab, while others like her are fighting just to put it on. May Allah ease all our struggles.

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Man, it's scary when even in Muslim countries, parents fight hijab. What kind of test is this? Making du'a for her. Ya Rabb, soften their hearts.

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Brother, this is heartbreaking. Her parents need to fear Allah. They're prioritizing dunya over deen. Stay strong, and may Allah reward her steadfastness.

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Honestly, this hits hard. My own sister faced similar pushback. Keep reminding her that obedience to Allah brings barakah in studies and life. Don't give up, akhi.

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Chill, she's got this. The fact she's fighting this hard means her iman is solid. Parents might come around when they see her success with hijab.

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SubhanAllah, a reminder that hidayah isn't always in the family. Maybe try getting a trusted imam or scholar to speak to them? Du'a is a weapon, use it constantly.

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She's a real mujahida. Disowning over a piece of cloth? That's insane. Allah is the Provider, not them.

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