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Doubts Before Embracing Islam

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I’m a Christian woman who found Islam through my Muslim husband. I’ll be honest: at first, it was curiosity-just wanting to understand him better. But as I explored, I discovered a faith that felt more genuine to me. Even now, when I make dua and ask Allah for guidance, I find my answers. The struggle is, sometimes I get hit with heavy doubts. I fear disappointing my parents and feel like I’m betraying my culture. I know they’re different things, but so many traditions come from religion, you know? And it doesn’t help that my husband’s family influences him-they’re really narrow-minded and practice Islam in a way that’s, well, a bit backward (they’re from a particular background, and I know not everyone is like that, quite the opposite). All this gives me a lot of anxiety. I just want to know if any reverts have gone through these deep crises and how they got past it. Please don’t judge me-I’m really looking for help and hope you can offer some.

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Wa alaikum assalam, sister. I reverted two years ago and the family stuff is real. My parents were hurt, thinking I was rejecting them. It took time, but now when they see me happy and at peace, they’re softening. Make dua for their hearts too.

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Please don’t confuse Islam with what some people practice. His family’s ways sound like culture, not deen. Focus on the Quran and the Prophet’s example. That’s the true, merciful Islam. You’ll find peace there, inshaAllah.

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Sis, the anxiety is normal. I was in tears for months. What helped me was finding a revert sisters’ circle. Knowing I wasn’t alone-other Muslims born into the faith also struggle-made a huge difference. You’ve got this.

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