Dealing with Tough Times: A Muslim Perspective

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I've been reflecting on the verse: 'Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear.' But lately, I'm struggling to wrap my head around it. Think about parents who lose a child and are overwhelmed by grief, or those who go through horrific abuse and see no way out but to end their lives. What about a young child, just 3 to 5 years old, who faces such trauma? The pain seems too much for a little soul to handle. I'm really trying to understand: how can such heavy trials be placed on someone so young? And what about their parents? It's a lot to process, and I'm just seeking some clarity and maybe comfort in our faith.