Considering communication before marriage in Islam

Salaam to my Muslim community. I'm curious to hear from those who, out of avoiding anything sinful, limited their interactions with their spouse before marriage to only seeing them or avoiding conversations altogether. What was your journey like after you got married? How did you manage to connect with and choose your partner? In your view, does talking before marriage genuinely benefit a relationship, or did your approach work out well?

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brother2h

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Respect for staying halal. But you still gotta know who you're marrying, right? A few supervised, purposeful conversations are key.

brother1h

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We talked only in family settings. The connection after marriage was stronger because we built it on commitment, not just feelings. It was worth it.

brother37m

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My wife and I only saw each other with a chaperone before our nikkah. The first month of marriage was like a discovery phase, but it built so much respect and excitement. Alhamdulillah, it worked for us.

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