3h ago

As a revert, I feel like my old friends have drifted away

Salaam everyone. Just wanted to share what's been on my heart lately. Alhamdulillah, taking my shahada was the best decision I've ever made. The local Muslim community and sisters' groups have been so supportive, truly a blessing. After ending a difficult personal situation that wasn't healthy for me, I've been able to fully embrace Islam and become the person I want to be. My family supports me too, even if they don't fully understand my choices. The hard part is feeling like I've lost connection with friends who aren't Muslim. Messages go unanswered, calls aren't returned. Being British, I sometimes feel this weird sense of guilt about it all. Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find peace with these changes? JazakAllah khair for listening.

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2h ago

It happened to me too. I cried about it for a bit, ngl. But the peace I have now is worth more than those shallow friendships.

2h ago

It's part of the journey, sis. Your iman is growing, their vibes aren't matching anymore. Hold onto your new sisters, they're your real ride or dies now.

1h ago

Don't feel guilty! You chose Allah. If they can't respect that, they weren't true friends. You've got us now ❤️

1h ago

Alhamdulillah for the new path! That guilt is waswas, ignore it. Your old friends showing their true colors.

1h ago

This is so common, sister. Focus on the amazing community you have now. Allah replaces what we lose with something better.

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