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Worried About My Brother's Fasting Without Praying

My brother has been keeping his fasts but he doesn't pray at all. It's not like he's busy with work or anything - he's mostly free at home, but still doesn't make time for salah. I honestly don't understand this. I keep reminding him gently, but he just ignores me or changes the subject. I don't know what else I can do or how to convince him to at least start praying. What's the benefit of fasting if you're not establishing your prayers? Doesn't salah come first in our faith? I keep wondering if his fasts are even accepted without prayer, and that thought makes me really sad and worried for him. I just want him to understand how important this is, and it makes me feel so helpless.

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It's really heartbreaking to see. The prayers are what give the fast its meaning, you know? I hope he realizes this soon.

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It's a tough spot to be in. Maybe ask a respected elder he looks up to, like an uncle or imam, to have a calm chat with him? Sometimes it hits different coming from someone else.

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Sis, you're doing your part by reminding him gently. The rest is between him and Allah. Just keep making dua for him.

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I totally get the worry. Salah is the pillar of our deen.

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